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Early Childhood Jewish Education Songleader's Guide Yom Kippur

Daniel Tiger Song Teaches Repentance and Repair

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Seeking a fun, familiar way to help children learn about the big ideas of Yom Kippur? 

I’m exploring repentance and repair with the youngest members of the tribe with the help of a secular song from the popular kid’s show Daniel Tiger (a modern adaptation of Mr. Roger’s). Mixing the familiar with the novel can captivates our brains and provides an engaging learning experience for all ages.  Remember that this song is to be shared year-round; teaching how to apologize isn’t seasonal.

PBS has blessed us with incredible resources in this clip through which Daniel Tiger teaches kids how to say sorry. The catchy chorus resonates: “Saying I’m sorry is the first step, then how can I help?” In my model presentation, I’ll show you how I’d support kids thinking through real-world examples of how to help when things go wrong, such as breaking something, knocking over someone’s tower, or accidentally hurting someone. The essential life skill of recognizing when to apologize and make amends can be learned early on.

Yom Kippur is a Time To Say Sorry

Yom Kippur is a sacred day for introspection, repentance, and repair in the Jewish tradition. As we approach this special holiday, it’s important to share and model these values with our children. 
“Saying I’m sorry is the first step, then how can I help?” is a simple song that provides a practical strategy. Practice it with your kiddos in this playful way when they are calm and regulated and ready to learn so that we can prepare to practice those skills in real time when feelings come fast.  With this catchy little diddy, even our youngest members can practice repentance and repair (sometimes better than their adult counterparts)!

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Dr. Emily Aronoff

Dr. Emily Aronoff is a Jewish educator, curriculum designer, and entrepreneur who helps Jewish music educators lead with confidence and joy. With a doctorate in Jewish Education and over 25 years of experience in early childhood centers, synagogues, camps, and schools, she bridges research-based practice with spiritual connection. Dr. Emily is the founder of the Songleading for Kiddos Support Squad, a professional membership community that provides curriculum, coaching, and community for Jewish music educators worldwide. Her work focuses on developmentally appropriate practice, family engagement, and creating meaningful musical experiences that anchor Jewish identity. As a single mother of three, she is passionate about building sustainable systems that support both educators and families in creating joyful Jewish learning through music and movement.

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